What should I wear?
We ask everyone to wear formal all black suits and dresses (excluding white dress shirts, shoes, coats). Please refer to the dress code page on our website to see our vision.
What time should I arrive?
The ceremony will begin punctually at 4:30pm. Please arrive no later than 4:20pm or you will sadly miss out on our ceremony.
Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony and reception will be held indoors. The cocktail hour will take place outside in the courtyard. Dress code does not apply to outdoor attire (coats, shawls, wraps).
Is there parking at the venue?
There is street parking, but it's not reserved. We recommend leaving your vehicle at the hotel.
Will there be transportation?
Yes, there will be a shuttle going to and from the venue.
When is the RSVP deadline?
We kindly ask you to RSVP by August 31st.
What should I do if I can't make it?
We will miss you! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate so on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.
What is The Abbey?
That is the name of our venue at St James 1868. There are 2 different venues and we're getting married in The Abbey!
Will there be food before dinner?
Yes! A selection of hors d'oeuvres will be passed during cocktail hour.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes, we will be hosting an open bar for our guests to enjoy throughout the evening.
Can I take photos during the Ceremony?
We kindly ask that guests remain present and refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. We promise to share plenty of photos afterward!
What is the Milwaukee weather like in October?
October in Milwaukee can be cool, especially in the evening. We recommend bringing a coat or wrap for our outdoor cocktail hour.